03
Apr
09

all it takes to lose…

Doesn’t matter how many years you’ve been friends for; doesn’t matter how many times you’ve stood by each other; doesn’t matter how many jokes sorry_13092029you’ve shared; doesn’t matter how long you’ve been there for each other; doesn’t matter how many jokes you’ve shared; doesn’t matter how many pranks you’ve played; doesn’t matter how many, many times you’ve told each other “You’re my best buddy!”. All it takes to lose a friend is not to attend her wedding!

I learnt this the hard way. May none of you ever!

P.S.:

My apologies! You’re still my best friend! :’(


24 Responses to “all it takes to lose…”


  1. Friday, April 3, 2009 at 3:35 pm

    I did not attend your wedding, and we still harass each other… :P

  2. Friday, April 3, 2009 at 3:56 pm

    May both of you again become best of friends … my best wishes …

    btw thanks for that advice …. I will take care to attend the wedding of all my friends ;)

  3. Friday, April 3, 2009 at 5:03 pm

    Will take care that such a thing wont happen in my life :d

    BTW it wasnt fair that u dint attend ur best friend’s wedding :P

    hope everything gets back to normal very soon :)

  4. Friday, April 3, 2009 at 5:19 pm

    Awwww… everything will be fine!!

  5. 5 Vee
    Friday, April 3, 2009 at 7:34 pm

    That can break a friendship? I did not know. I thought not sharing partners does it in most cases.. Hahaha…

  6. Friday, April 3, 2009 at 7:46 pm

    People are sensitive about attendance in their wedding!! god knows why!

  7. 7 Anu
    Saturday, April 4, 2009 at 10:26 am

    Try not wishing her on her birthday ! That works too ! :(

  8. 8 Apar
    Saturday, April 4, 2009 at 10:41 am

    Trust me when I say, everything will be fine!!

  9. Sunday, April 5, 2009 at 12:41 am

    Ouch…

    Thankfully, ve not been faced with such a situation yet. Well, it is another thing that I don’t believe in having a *best* friend. Yet.

    Just a passing phase. You two will be laughing away together very soon… And my wishes to her on her *promotion* in life. :)

    Peace. Have a nice weekend.

  10. Sunday, April 5, 2009 at 10:47 am

    @Nikhil
    You’re the ideal friend! :D
    Thanks for the continued harrassment..er er..friendship! :P

    @Harsh
    Thanks! I hope so too! :)
    Please do attend it all! :D

    @Rekha
    Yes…take care!
    I had my reasons — the bad-back thingy!
    Thanks, I hope so too.

    @Sakhi
    :)

    @Vee
    LOL…that also??? 8O

    @Reema
    I know! I didn’t …and I thought people generally don’t. I was wrong. Learnt that the hard way too! :-?

    @Anu
    It does?? :-o Never knew that, because it never happened; i’m a perpetual late-wisher! :D

    @Apar
    Hope so! It hurts! Apparently, it hurts her more!

    @Kartz
    Good for you!
    Well, one can’t have just one best friend…ironical, but true! Probably why she doesn’t mind losing me :D
    I hope so! Will convey!
    You too!

  11. Sunday, April 5, 2009 at 7:19 pm

    I hold the world record for “missed weddings”. Nothing happens!! Cheer up! I haven’t lost anyone! :)

  12. Monday, April 6, 2009 at 10:52 am

    Ur best friends married ??????….appo adum poyi !!!

    Btw, is it that old friend on whom you had written a post long ago that you are referring here ???

  13. Monday, April 6, 2009 at 1:15 pm

    if she is best fren…she shd understand genuinity of ur reason of not being there in wedding..
    My best fren attend only main wedding day only but for some reason she has to miss all others….but i didnt mind and understood her problem…

    wish u will be laughing and talking again with her :-)

  14. Monday, April 6, 2009 at 5:46 pm

    i missed all the weddings of my friends that took place in 2008. huh!

  15. Monday, April 6, 2009 at 7:58 pm

    @Amit
    I seem to be competing to break your record.
    Hope I don’t either!

    @vimmuuu
    Man, are you desperate! :P
    No, it’s not her. I had written about this friend as well… as a broken-toe buddy! :D

    @Rashmi
    SHe has…but only much later. She was too shocked at my absence initially :(
    I wish so too! Sigh!

    @@Joshi
    Yea…mine inclusive! :x

  16. Monday, April 6, 2009 at 8:24 pm

    You didnt attend the wedding of that broken toe buddy??? That was indeed mean !!!!

    Btw, I miss commenting ‘Welcome Back’ these days ;)

  17. Tuesday, April 7, 2009 at 6:09 pm

    Nonsense…I had a broken back and could hardly walk 2 metres!!

    Hehe…don’t try to make me take another break from blogging…won’t work :P

  18. Monday, April 13, 2009 at 5:16 pm

    LOL no wonder ur rushing to perumbavoor ;P for the next wedding..but send her a link of ths and im sure her heart would melt ;P

  19. Tuesday, April 14, 2009 at 9:40 am

    @Verbivore
    :D Eskatly!!! :D
    AAh…nope…won’t work. She says its forgiven…but we seem to hav lost the chemistry :(

  20. Wednesday, April 15, 2009 at 11:56 am

    comeon yaar…. Its wedding!! It happens once in life you should have attended it but nyways she is ur best briend she will understand it

  21. Thursday, April 16, 2009 at 3:54 pm

    @Ashish
    Welcome to AlphabetWorld! :)
    Hehe…I attended mine, Thank God; that was my husband’s biggest worry — that I’ll forget; but in her case, I was in injury! :(

  22. 22 Solilo
    Friday, April 17, 2009 at 2:24 am

    Aww….hope your friend understands.

  23. Thursday, April 30, 2009 at 3:25 pm

    Its not everyday that you get a friend who thinks like you, acts like you, eats like you, sleeps like you, talks like you and what not like you… But when you know the other person like yourself, its hard to be angry with the other person for long. But when you do get angry, its even harder to get over it…. Cos, for my wedding I dint really care about the 1000-2000 ppl who came ter (I din even kno half of them). And above all my friends it was yu who mattered the most, cos it wos yu who i told first when I went bonkers for the guy, yu wer te first person to kno when the dates go t fixed for te wedding and yu wer te first person I expected to be at my home b4 te weddin. ……….…………………But I also know that I was tooo rude to you even though you tried a lot of ways to make it up. But I guess wot tey say bt time healing is true Cos I just wnt to say I am all over it now and I am reelly SORRY for being so rude. Im taking back all tat I said n yur still my best friend. Cos like te song goes,’I need yu beside me no matter what(I/Yu) do, for I kno il never find another yu…..;)I kno im bein a lil mushy here, but I don care.Lov yu loads diiii….;);)


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