There’s nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.
So says Shakespeare’s Hamlet. Well, how more true can this be ?
There are certain people who enter your life unannounced, uninvited, yet becomes an integral part of your life. They become so much a part of your daily life that after a point, you don’t even realise what they do for you and what they don’t…you start taking them for granted…sometimes you like them; sometimes you hate; sometimes you look for them; sometimes you hide; sometimes you listen to them; sometimes you walk away…
I have one such person to talk about…
This person was not my type at all…I never thought I’d become friends with this person. But well, you can never chart out your life, can you? This person and I became friends. And being in a new city for good measure, I found much help in this person. A symbol of purity at heart, this person is very endearing to all who surround. Extremely selfless, this person would cross desert and sea to be with a person in need. Though this person would always be with everyone, wishing them good, people end up hurting this person a lot…leaving this person to wonder why good never begets good, at least, in this person’s life.
For me, this person has been a huge support and help for as long as I can remember. We have had our fights and misunderstandings, joys and happy hours….but this person, unlike me, was always unflinching in defining the meaning of friendship. I have no words that will justifiably thank this person for all that this person did for me.
This person has a heart that forgives; love is all this person ever needs and expects. This person always strives to see goodness in others…and tries to conquer people with love. Even to people who have conspired against this person, this person returns it all manifold in a lot of loving gestures and favours. This person, I would hence conclude by saying, is unique…one in a million!
But…like I mentioned earlier, this person was not my type at all…and well, maybe not all man is perfect! This person is an extremist, in a good sense, though. For this person, everything is sacred–relationships are meant to be forever! Being an independent, free person, I found myself wanting the famous “space” in my life. But this person would always be there with a piece of good advice, a helping hand or a shoulder to cry on. And when perspectives of two people are different, everything one does would seem weird to the other…and well, though there’s nothing good or bad, thinking ALWAYS makes it so… and trouble creeps in…distance separates people…difference of opinions manifest themselves as irritation, anger…one loses the ones they once liked…but sometimes, one doesn’t care…that’s what happened to us too…
AlphabetWorld! 
That’s sad ðŠ I like the fact that you have only good things to say about the person. Yes, nothing separates two good people more easily than Time and Distance ðŠ
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Donno what to say! But ‘vishamikkandaa’ tto !
psst…psst…..though you have taken measures to hide the ‘persons’ gender, one particular sentence reveals it !
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@Lekhni
ð i agree…Time is the most important factor…
@Vimal
‘Ok’tto ð
and pssst pssst….if the sentence you are talking about is “well, maybe not all man is perfect!”, well tht isnt exactly a clue ð :D. If i said ‘men’, fine…but here, ‘man’ is being used instead of the word ‘human’ ð ð
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Hmmm..its sad when things dont work out even the person is so good. People ask what happened..he/she was such a good person..u two were such good friends etc etc but the truth is it just doesnt “click” thats all. Sometimes we get work out the difference in opinions and sometimes we arent able to and have to sever ties. But before ending I think we should check whether have we done all that we could do?
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Hmmm… Very sweet post! A little hypocritical, though! You seem to contradict yourself… If that person meant a lot to you, then why do you wanna sever all ties with him? :O
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@Reema
This ended a while ago….and all things possible were done…checking, re-checking and re-re-checking…it just did not work!
@Nikhil
I kno! Couldnt help it…was not a breaking off i looked forward to…it just happened so. It’s sometimes safer to let go than to cling on…and well, pls don b fast to make it a ‘him’ ð ð ð
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That’s so sad!! ðŠ I have ever thought that distance when you have a lovestory can only complicate all. And too much difference between the 2 people, too.
*a big kiss and a huge hug*
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That was quite intense!! Hope u r fine!!
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hmmmmmmmm… it hurts when a good friendship ends, but it is sometimes better for both the persons… And i personally feel the “space” isvery, very important in any relationship.
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@scorpria..
Well, I was more like this person you’re talkin about earlier, and now I’ve become different.. you’ve read my last post so u knw how i’ve changed, become more independent.. So sometimes I too feel like letting go of people who are the types that you’re talkin about.. Dunnno why… Its not like I want to lose them forever but I dont want to hold on to them either. Strange.. ðŠ
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Is that wrong….???? :-s
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ðŠ ðŠ ðŠ
this sums it up..
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Hey great write up..Sums up the villainous part distance plays in many a relationship.but have to add true and strong relationships would be able to withstand the test….Anyways..Keep Blogging,Hope ur English Miss Gets to see this.She always had high hopes for you ð
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@Smallstar
Well, this is not really a love story that reached a bitter end. but yea, strange things can affect relationships in a strange way.
@Nova
Yeah….am quite ok now. It was kinda traumatic…for both, i guess
@Sakhi
my feelings exactly! I also feel that ‘space’ shud never be allowed to be intruded into! Thts the best way to respect another individual…
@anu
Personally, I dont think its wrong at all… all relationships CANNOT remain the same forever…sometimes new people replace the old and in a much better way…sometimes, nothing can ever relace someone…well, its life that flows on its own that matters…and for all happiness, i usually let it take its course…its mostly easier and better to let go than to hold on…this may sound like vulnerability…but it helps big-time sometimes!!
@Scorpiogenius
hmmm ðŠ
@Anish
Welcome to alphabetworld!
Parackal, is it?? nee blogum cheyyo?? you have one? hehe….avarithokke kandaal enne kollum ð ð
and in case you are not the Anish i’m referring to, thanks for the comment…keep visiting! ð
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@ Reema
You have a perfect point, but sad thing is, no one can get away just by saying *it didn’t click*, and we all know there are few people we can’t deny answer!!!
@Scorpria
At least you are not feeling your decision was wrong. And that is a good thing really.
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@scorpria: yeah… I am agree with you…
*HUG*
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Hey Priya..It is d same….Ahha kaapi kudikkanvarkkore kappi thottam undo..lol..Actually i remember reading ur vellarikkapattanam some while ago..But lost touch for a while..Eni illa…Keep blogging…All the wishes for some upcoming happiness.:)
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Hmmm… Your post bears an unearthly similarity to what I experienced once (not too long ago). Well, my post was slightly different.
http://kartzonline.blogspot.com/2008/05/magma-forge-ramifications-of-rage.html
Peace.
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@Kartz
Shall check it out and get back tu yu soon ð
Hope no one will ever have to go thru such a phase ðŠ
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Hmmm… I would love to second that. But well, anything can happen in life. So, it’s best to accept it. Grit and bear it… Life is not a smooth sailing ship, and you do know that.
As I said, “Hope is a good thing; may be not the best of things. But all good things never die.” (Enough of my philosophies for now… ;))
Peace, and have a nice day.
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@Kartz
Yes. Very true!
Life is never a smooth sailing ship, and guess no one knows it like i do! ð
Have a nice day! ð
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