Just because there are smartphones and there is Internet and there are apps that allow to us to spread just about anything, I don’t think there is any NEED to troll people whose actions have ABSOLUTELY NO bearing on you..
I am stunned at the uproar the wedding of two film stars in Kerala created yesterday. And I’m even more stunned at how educated friends of mine have been bombarding me with these “jokes” and memes. Stop it.
So what if they both are divorced? So what if they maintained that there was nothing going on between them? So what if the daughter of the man chose to support her father’s second marriage? So what if his first wife ‘sacrificed’ her career for him and the child? So what if there was always talk of these two ending up together someday?
Who are we to judge anybody? Who are we to say she suffered for the past how-many-ever years with him and yet he is now with another woman? Who are we to say the daughter was heartless in supporting her father and cared nothing for the mother who went through labour to bring her into this world? Who are we to claim she never had any faults? Who are we to claim he never had any faults? Who are we to decide which parent the child should support in such a case? In any case, how it it your right to get involved in their lives to the extent of being vile, crude and downright crassy?
For God’s sake. This is about the lives of a family that fell apart…and a new one that formed. No one knows what went on in those lives in the past years. No one knows if he was a devil, if she was a devil, if the child was not brought up well. No one knows what prompted the discord and what created the distances. No one knows what split two people apart and what brought two people together.
Everything we’ve known came from the grapevine. It’s all pure speculation. How can we just change sides when it suits us? You all, supporting the ex-wife and mourning over her huge sacrifice of career and being a mother — did you so quickly forget how you all blamed her for being a horrible mother and terrible wife when the divorce happened? 😮
Stop the trolling. This is not affecting your life by any measure. This is not going to make you wait outside theatres in mile-long queues. This is not going to make IFFI stop making good movies that humanity needs and turn their lenses on what’s happenings in outer space. This is not going to take away any jobs you/your family have in various parts of the world.
Stop the trolling. And for God’s sake, leave them alone. How people choose to live their lives, within their rights and life premises, is none of anybody else’s business.
Stop the trolling. Your troll jokes and forwards are NOT FUNNY. If you think they are, and if you can’t help spreading that shit, spare me. I exited some WhatsApp groups yesterday to which you all promptly added me back. Trust me: if you can’t stop, I will not think twice about blocking you and never remembering to unblock you after that. And I don’t mean just this instance.
Have some class, and have some principles.
I was not aware of these actors and their life stories till I saw my FB timeline full of updates, pictures, comments and stories about them. I agree with you, It is nobody’s business to know how people choose to live their lives. I vote for no trolling!!
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It annoys me no end how people judge others so quickly, when they’re least interested in the why behind things and only focus on the whats! UGH!
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It’s so sad and time to let them be rather than act as a moral compass which sucks.
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Totally.
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I am not aware of who they are. But people there are also humans like you give them their privacy. As you don’t wash your dirty linen in public don’t encourage the gossips by listening to their personal matters.
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Exactly.
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It has always amazed me the assurance with which people talk about the personal life of actors, as if they were a fly on the wall. Truth be told even such a fly wouldn’t know everything considering it only can hear and not feel for those involved.
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I know. And to then also assume everyone is interested and in agreement as well. 🙄
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Vere paniyille ivarkokke? 🙄
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😂
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HEAR HEAR..
No idea who these two are.. but then it is true .. kuch to log kahenge.. logon ka kaam hai kehna…
And u r right the funny part is its the educated who send these forwards etc the most .. without even giving it a thought..
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Yeah. How true that education (or age) doesn’t bring people any maturity!
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Brilliant! Its actually sad to see the filmstars being gossiped about and trolled! Let them be…let them live their lives and we our own!
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Yeah. It’s so annoying. Esp when your friends think it’s OK to bombard you with all that even after saying you sing enjoy it. Ugh.
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I am in agreement with everything here except the kind of dialogues the Mr. mouthed in justification of this marriage and also the way he corrected his new wife on live camera when she requested the public for their blessings…
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That’s a whole other issue. I shall not get into that. 🙄
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