When I wrote this post yesterday, I had a lot of questions kicking up a mini-storm in my head, derailing my otherwise logical thought process. When Varsh commented that if only we knew all the answers, life would be much less complicated, I told her travel was the answer to everything, especially if to somewhere in the Himalayan region đ
Which is true, of course. But, when you are not all set for travel, there is another source for answers to these kinds of questions! And, thatâs in Hobbes. If you follow Calvin and Hobbes, youâre probably nodding your head right now. Havenât you wondered how Calvin always asks these philosophical, highly intriguing and seemingly rhetorical questions, only to have Hobbes respond with the simplest answers? Little surprise then, that the answer is in yourself đ In the rare chance that you actually get it from another person altogether, then be assured that person is, in essence, your subconscious!
Anyway, after I posted this yesterday, I got well told off by my subconscious, who then sat me down and took those questions one by one.
Here are enlightenments from my subconscious (up for debate, though not for agreement, because my subconscious is mine own and might think and perform differently from yours for good measure)âŚ
Q: Reflections, when ugly, are never the mirrorâs fault. It is the fault of the âobjectâ and the âlightâ that reflects off it at a bad angle. But you do need the mirror to show that to you. Unless you choose to never look in the mirror. Is that wise, though?
A: Not at all. Though, if in your search for ugly reflections, youâre missing out on the beautiful ones, then youâre defeating the whole purpose of reflections and probably should stop it right away! Or, look for the beautiful ones instead and see how they weigh against the ugly ones. Whatever you do, make sure the outcome is a good one. Else, donât attempt it. It gives you no returns in the long run.
Q: Looking back at the past and drawing lines to the presentâŚis that a good thing to do? Does reflecting on the past and regretting not acting on a certain intuition thenâŚmake it sensible to consider that decision now?
A: Yes, it is a great thing to do to help you spot potholes from afar and steer away from them. But unless the people, situations and feeling are the exact same now as they were then, that decision from then is irrelevant in the now. Itâs got to be a fresh, well thought out one that will consider and help you brace against impact from all angles.
Q: Are intuitions any good, or is it just a fancy term for a comparison at different levels? Are they just bad feelings to brush off with Hope and Faith, or are they things needing serious thought?
A: Intuitions are good, to be listened to. Theyâre not fancy or to be brushed off at any time. Please, always listen. Never walk into something you have doubts about. If youâre not convinced, donât do it.
Q: How much, what kind and when is it OK to forgive? If you cannot forget, whatâs the point in forgiving, when memory serves to rekindle the same feelings many times over? How genuine, then, is that forgivenessâŚand how fruitful?
A: If it didnât include physical abuse/violence and deliberate false accusations/character assassination, the rest could be considered forgivable. This is a matter of personal choice, of course. But broadly, if it is in someoneâs character to accept fault and be corrected, then they deserve that chance at forgiveness. But, just one chance. Itâs good to not forget, because if life slaps you in the face again, you know what and how you survived previously. It makes you stronger, wiser. Forgetting something is not in anyoneâs immediate control, but the forgiveness can be truly genuine if it is from the heart, with no unhealthy intentionsâŚand highly fruitful in salvaging a lot that matters in life.
Q: How can you weigh the unknown repercussions of your decisions against your future happiness? What if your intuition fails you and you donât take what could have been the best decision of your life?
A: Everyone knows the answer to this đ Itâs the future weâre talking about! Donât, and you canât, plan it.
Q: How trustworthy can todayâs promises be, when tomorrow is a whole new day?
A: Go ahead and trust – it will do you good. It does make you vulnerable, yes, but not if youâre in the right hands. So, before you call on your heart and trust someone (again), call on your mind and make that smart assessment of whose promises will be kept and whose will not. But please, do trust. For people cannot rip open their hearts and show you that they mean it â they can only tell you and hope for your trust.
Q: Does anyone know how the scalded cat, that feared even cold water, finally got over its fear? Is fear a good reason to not believe?
A: Well, this is a secret of my species; Iâm not really allowed to divulge it to your kind. But for you, and only for you, I shall. We just got thirsty. Think about itâŚif we relied on fear as a good reason to believe that water (in all forms) was going to burn us, weâd have all died of thirst and become extinct. So, no â fear is never a good reason to not believe; fact is.
Q: In an attempt to stay positive, is it wise to brush the unknown, unexpected and unhappy under the carpet?
A: No. Well, the unknown and unexpected are not in your control. The unhappy, however, is. Goes a little back to the first question, really. But if the attempt to stay positive is supported by fact, faith, trust and hope, then maybe (just maybe) brush it under for now. Because, there will always be an opportunity to lift that carpet and clean it up for good.
Q: How late is too late?
A: Itâs never too late, for anything. No decision you take is the final decision of your life, unless it is to take your life itself. Which I, as your subconscious, will never let you do: because your life is mine tooâŚand I am, because you are.
If there is one thing Iâm grateful for in life, it is my subconscious đ What would I do without you!?
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